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Grief

Loss and sadness are not failures of faith. Prophets grieved. The Quran and the Sunnah give grief a dignified place, and a direction.

4 verses · 2 hadith · 1 article

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What the Quran says

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QuranMeaning in our own words

قَالَ إِنَّمَآ أَشْكُوا۟ بَثِّى وَحُزْنِىٓ إِلَى ٱللَّهِ وَأَعْلَمُ مِنَ ٱللَّهِ مَا لَا تَعْلَمُونَ

He said: I only complain of my grief and sorrow to Allah, and I know from Allah what you do not know.

Said by Ya'qub after losing two sons.

ٱلَّذِينَ إِذَآ أَصَـٰبَتْهُم مُّصِيبَةٌ قَالُوٓا۟ إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّآ إِلَيْهِ رَٰجِعُونَ

Those who, when disaster strikes them, say: “We belong to Allah, and to Him we will return.”

مَا وَدَّعَكَ رَبُّكَ وَمَا قَلَىٰ

Your Lord has not abandoned you, nor is He displeased with you.

فَإِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا إِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا

So surely with hardship comes ease. Surely with hardship comes ease.

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From the Sunnah

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Hadith

Tears are not a lack of faith; the Prophet peace be upon him wept.

When the Prophet's son Ibrahim was dying, the Prophet peace be upon him wept and said: The eyes shed tears and the heart grieves, but we say only what pleases our Lord. We are saddened by your parting, O Ibrahim.

Narrator
Anas ibn Malik
Book
Book of Funerals
Sahih (authentic) Reference awaiting review

A du'a for when something is taken from you.

Whoever is struck by a calamity and says, “We belong to Allah and to Him we return. O Allah, reward me in my calamity and replace it with something better,” Allah will replace it with something better. Umm Salamah said this when her husband died, and later married the Prophet peace be upon him.

Reference
Sahih Muslim 918
Narrator
Umm Salamah
Book
Book of Funerals
Sahih (authentic) Reference awaiting review

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Surahs to read

Where to go next in the Quran itself.

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Reflect and act

Explanation

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Reflect

  • If you could say anything to Allah about this loss, what would you say?